The recommendation to develop a multidisciplinary approach needs to encompass the whole adoption process, not just adoption support
We were delighted to read the APPG for Adoption and Permanence’s recent Investing in Families report as it had both a positive and constructive view of the Adoption Support Fund (ASF) based on the evidence collated. We can only endorse from our experience the recommendations of the report. The ASF (as it has been for the past four years) has to be seen as a first step in funding focused therapeutic support for the contemporary adoptive family. Like any first step a lot can be learned from it and we think the APPG report spells out those lessons very clearly and carefully.
The APPG’s recommendation 4 calling for an increase in clinical input is something that Family Futures have been advocating for some time now. The report recognises that for a significant number of families (56% if using Adoption UK’s Adoption Barometer as a guide) are still needing a longer and more significant specialist and therapeutic service. We know from our own clinical experience that at least half of the children placed for adoption today have high levels of complex needs that require therapeutic input and support, at varying intensities, throughout their childhood. Because of the complexity of these needs and the early ‘significant harm’ this group of children have experienced, the allocation of longer term therapeutic packages needs to be one that is assessed and evaluated by a panel of clinicians.
Currently it is difficult to obtain matched funding for the more complex cases and the annual re-evaluation can lead to unhelpful breaks in therapy while administrators resolve the funding issues. As a consequence the children with the highest level of need have been least well served by the ASF. This seems like ‘unfair access’.
One of the difficulties the ASF and adoption services in general are currently experiencing is the lack of a coherent and consistent theoretical approach to providing post adoption support. We don’t believe it can just be left to whatever the market delivers or to whatever parents think they need. There is now copious evidence on the impact of neglect and abuse upon child development. It is this body of knowledge that should form the basis for post placement support.
This body of knowledge combined with our experience of working with adoptive families has led us to provide an integrated multidisciplinary post placement service for adopted and fostered children. Family Futures’ approach has now been peer reviewed, evaluated and published and provides evidence of positive outcomes so we very much support the APPG’s recommendation for developing a multidisciplinary approach, not just to post adoption support, but to the whole adoption process. In this way children in foster care would be assessed more comprehensively, better matches made and post placement support programmes put in place using the expertise of a range of professionals.
How can we improve the experience of adoptive families today?
Of all the descriptors of adoption today, we believe the Adoption Barometer published by Adoption UK is the most meaningful because a large number of adoptive parents describe their lived experience of adoption. The fact that ‘56% of established families faced significant or extreme challenges’ is a compelling finding. It tells two stories: presumably 44% of adoptive families are enjoying their adoption experience and finding it relatively unproblematic which is good news. However, for the 56% who aren’t, there still remains a significant need for more comprehensive, therapeutic, trauma-informed services to help families in difficulty.
The other most significant finding is that ‘54% of newly-placed adoptive families experienced stress, anxiety or symptoms of post adoption depression during the early weeks’. In our view, this common experience for many adopters should be addressed by more sympathetic and informed support offered during difficult times, particularly post placement. Sadly, this is not always available.
We very much hope that the Department of Education listens to the collective voice of parents and is not just predicating policy on academic research which is often inconclusive. Well done Adoption UK.
Tips from our team of Ocupational Therapists/ Sensory Integration Practitioners at Family Futures
Have a look at our Sensory Summer Activities guide here with tips for parents and carers on keeping structure going through the summer, sun screen recommendations plus activity ideas for at home, the pool, the beach and outdoor play.
Therapist, Adam Goren, reflects on how to best meet the needs of families in stress or distress
Coming to Family Futures from a small local authority post adoption support team felt like moving to the gold standard service. Years back I saw a BBC documentary called ‘A Home for Maisie’ and admired the work of the therapists with the featured adopted girl and her family. And I remember thinking that in another life I might work in a place like that.
It was only a few weeks into my job at Family Futures that I realised that this was the same place! What attracted me was a completely different model of working from that of classical child psychotherapy.
Working with traumatised children I realised that talking therapy wasn’t in and of itself enough. Children had sensory and physical difficulties and suffered from huge anxiety.
I was looking for something else to help my work to be more effective. Family Futures offered a much broader more inclusive range of tools for helping children and families. When I arrived I was somewhat awed with a bit of survivor guilt. There are not the same resource pressures as in the local authority and the emphasis is definitely on quality long term support. I also felt really tested to think outside the box of my professional training, even though this was what I was searching for. I had to get used to different creative ways of working and to working alongside staff from a wide range of professional backgrounds in sessions.
I was struck by how much time was carved out for planning and calibrating the support to suit each family’s specific needs. We are always asking how can we improve what we are offering and what more can we do? But I think that what I was most struck by was how totally passionately committed Family Futures is to helping families. Kindness and commitment maybe somewhat under-rated qualities, but they strike me as some of the most powerful tools we have in helping families in stress or distress.
If you’re looking for a way to explain to children how the brain’s development is affected by traumatic experiences in childhood & how you can help change the way your brain works, watch the Introduction and read more information here.
You can read a review of The Brain Game here.
“I am so impressed with this video. Something for children is much needed. I showed it to my 16 year old adopted daughter who has a trauma history and to my 12 year old birth son. They both really liked it and understood the information. My daughter even came back to me a few hours later to discuss some of it. So, as a parent, thank you so much for creating this resource!” Adoptive parent
After 21 years at the helm of Family Futures, our co-founder and co-director, Alan Burnell, will be retiring in September 2019
Family Futures would like to announce that Alan Burnell will be retiring in September 2019. As a founder member and co-director of Family Futures, Alan has dedicated his career to improving the lives of adopted and fostered children and their families.
After leaving university, Alan worked in social services, was a founder member of the Post Adoption Centre and went on to be its Director. In 1998, in collaboration with Jay Vaughan and Christine Gordon, Alan set up Family Futures as a pioneering, bespoke therapy service for the contemporary adoptive family. Over the past 21 years, Family Futures has evolved and grown to be the outstanding and renowned centre of excellence it is today.
Alan will be succeeded by Jay Vaughan, who will become CEO and Registered Manager of Family Futures in September 2019. This transition has been five years in the planning to ensure as seamless a transition as possible. Alan will continue to be involved with the work of Family Futures as a non executive director.
If you would like to send a message to Alan on his retirement, please email us here.
Adoption UK’s Adoption Barometer highlights the issues affecting adoptive families in the UK today
The majority of adopted, fostered and SGO children have suffered abuse in infancy. They have been removed from their birth families because of “significant harm”. Sadly, this significant harm has already impaired the child’s brain development, leaving them hardwired for anxiety and affecting their ability to regulate emotions.
As an adoptive mother said this week in a recent Channel 4 news film: “Children who have been neglected, who have been to hell and back, and are trying to grow up, have overwhelming feelings and they don’t know what to do with them. They can’t put them into words.” In the majority of cases with adopted, fostered and SGO children, we know from our experience that Child on Parent violence (CPV) is a consequence of early child abuse and neglect, and needs a robust therapeutic response from placing agencies. The government should prioritise the Adoption Support Fund to fund long-term therapy for every child placed for adoption to address the problems these damaged children now face and to give them a chance in life. If the family’s whole network, including the school, understand the impact of trauma and form a team of support around each child, families affected by CPV will start to get the understanding and support they desperately need.
Dr Raja Mukherjee runs our first FASD clinic for families in treatment at Family Futures
We’re very pleased to be pioneering a Foetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder (FASD) consultation & advice service for families in treatment here, in collaboration with Surrey & Borders Partnership NHS Foundation Trust. FASD is a ‘hidden epidemic’ affecting at least 2 out of every 100 people in the UK and around three quarters of looked after children are thought to be at risk. More awareness and support is needed for those suffering from the lifelong brain damage and symptoms of FASD, often currently misdiagnosed or not diagnosed at all. Our new consultation service is run by Dr Raja Mukherjee, a consultant psychiatrist and internationally acclaimed expert in FASD.
Watch the latest video in our Helping Families Heal series
We’re delighted to share the latest video in our Helping Families Heal series, hosted by a parent who has adopted a child through Family Futures. How Theraplay® helps children who have experienced complex trauma is discussed with Sarah Kerrigan who is a Senior Dramatherapist at Family Futures and Theraplay Practitioner in training with intermediate status. Watch Sarah demonstrate some Theraplay games in a role play and answer questions adoptive parents have about how assessments and sessions work, how you can integrate Theraplay into your home routine and tips on finding a Theraplay practitioner for your family. Don’t forget to subscribe to our YouTube Channel to see our other videos and let us know your comments.
Do you feel able to provide a home for the most disadvantaged and vulnerable children in the care system?
We’re holding an Information Evening on Wednesday 5 June from 7pm-8pm at Family Futures. Come along and find out more about the adoption process and how we can support you in caring for a child who has had a traumatic start in life to give them a better future. We can discuss any questions you may have about adopting a child, or you can also call us between 9.30am and 4.30pm, Monday to Thursday to speak to one of our team. Find out more about adopting a child with Family Futures here
“Prospective adopters receive outstanding support and guidance from dedicated workers throughout the adoption process.” Ofsted 2018
Please email us to let us know if you are coming to the Information Evening.