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We are open and running our services to support you at this difficult time

Family Futures is committed to supporting children and families at this difficult and stressful time. We are open and running our assessment and therapeutic treatment services through secure, digital platforms. We are also accepting new referrals.

Our advice line is here for you:

Email: or call 020 7354 4161

Letter from Jay Vaughan to families – Read more…

Adoption Support Fund and Coronavirus FAQs for service providers – published by the DfE

Letter from Jay Vaughan to families

Dear families, parents, children and young people,  

I hope you are all keeping well and safe.  

The advice on managing the COVID-19 (coronavirus) situation is changing daily, and the most important consideration is of course the health and wellbeing of us all! With this in mind the whole team at Family Futures has been thinking about how we can continue to support you all.  

Our aim as an agency is to ensure that we continue to provide you with support and to ensure that we survive as an agency so we can provide a service post this crisis.  

We have been working out an individual support plan for each family in treatment at Family Futures and also for families who had or are about to have an assessment. We will be offering your support plan remotely, for instance via virtual forums.  We are asking you to agree to this support programme as the best way forward, in these unprecedented times, to ensure we offer continued support to your family through this challenging time and to help ensure Family Futures is still here for you after this crisis. I am not sure if all of you are aware we are a small, not for profit organisation with no grant funding, charitable funding or government funding underpinning us so we cover our costs each month by the income we generate by providing assessment, therapy and so on.

We are also planning to keep posting online ideas for families about activities they can do at home and our advice line service will still be running to support you at this time.  

Keep safe all and keep in touch.  

With hugs from all at Family Futures or rather elbow bumps for now!


Jay Vaughan, Registered Manager and CEO

Family Futures, updated 22 March 2020

‘Agency helps children develop more secure attachments’

Family Futures’ innovative practice is highlighted in Children and Young People Now‘s Therapeutic Care supplement, Feb/March 2020

We were delighted to feature in this article in ‘Children and Young People Now’ which highlights our innovative practice in therapeutic care. The article describes our NPP model of therapy & DDP’s emphasis on parental involvement in the therapeutic process.

Coronavirus COVID-19 update

Please read a letter to all our families from Jay Vaughan, Registered Manager and CEO, Family Futures (updated 22 March 2020)

Family Futures is now offering all services virtually (by video, phone or digitally) from Monday 23 March 2020 until further notice. We are taking this step to protect all the families and professionals who use our services, and our staff.

New training for parents and carers, 2020

Announcing our new courses for 2020 designed to support adoptive parents, foster carers, special guardians and kinship carers to parent their child therapeutically. Each course provides life-changing practical techniques and skills as well as an understanding of how trauma affects all aspects of a child’s development. Click on the links below to find out more:

See our full list of courses for parents and carers here

Coronavirus COVID-19 update

Please read a letter to all our families, colleagues and friends from Jay Vaughan, Registered Manager and CEO, Family Futures

Family Futures is now offering all services virtually (by video, phone or digitally) from Monday 23 March 2020 until further notice. We are taking this step to protect all the families and professionals who use our services, and our staff.

LGBT+ Adoption & Fostering Week 2020

We’re proud to support LGBT+ Adoption & Fostering Week 2020. The theme this year is #WhyNotYou and tackling the myths that stop people coming forward. As members of New Family Social we welcome LGBT+ enquiries. Why not find out more about adoption here, or you can email us or call us on 020 7354 4161.

You can read more about this year’s campaign on New Family Social’s website: LGBT+ people need to ‘rule themselves in, not out’ as adopters and foster carers

An opportunity for change

Jay Vaughan, Registered Manager of Family Futures, reflects on how we can best support traumatised children and their families

I have now been Registered Manager of Family Futures for 5 months, and what a 5 months it has been! I have moved desk, which might not seem a big deal to some, but change is hard and the desk move process and adjusting to the hotter temperature in my new desk area has taken time (and fewer jumpers) and symbolises the increased ‘heat’ of the new role. 

It has been a roller coaster of a ride! The last five months have seen the Regions, in London in particular, getting up and running but struggling with the sheer number of referrals for post adoption support. The new Children’s Minister has said adoption is a priority and there was some back lash against this from those representing special guardians and foster children.

Families are finding they need so much more than the Adoption Support Fund (ASF) capped rate of funding to address the harm caused by abuse and prolonged trauma to their child. I felt astonished by the silence about this as I know our advice line and service has been full of families desperate for support and struggling to even get hold of a social worker in the current reorganisation into regions.

The ASF has been given at least another year, which is good news, and yet the system around it has not been improved or rethought, in spite of the knowledge that so many adoptive families are struggling to access the support they need. The Adoption Barometer by Adoption UK in 2019, reported 70% of established adoptive families struggle to get the help and support their child needs. Sadly, it seems that many families are worse off now than before, as getting an assessment for an ASF application can be so hard in the current climate.

And yet curiously nothing was said that questioned how we, as a society, can talk about increasing the number of adoptions when the adoption support is not in place for families who come forward.

In the midst of all of this I have been interviewed for Radio 4’s File on 4 programme about sibling placements, and I was also interviewed for Newsnight about adoption support although press about the Royals ended up taking the slot! So it seems to me, being Registered Manager of Family Futures, for now at least, has been about speaking up for the children and families who so desperately need a voice when they are living with the challenges of supporting a traumatised child.

Meanwhile VAA’s are struggling around the country and the message from CVAA (the Consortium of Voluntary Adoption Agencies) is that they need to ensure that they have good business management and need to diversify in order to survive in this climate of cut backs. Family Futures is definitely feeling the pinch, but I am confident that we are well on the case with good business and financial management to ensure our survival. We have plans in place for diversification, with Family Futures about to register as an Independent Fostering Agency, and we are developing our training services to include online training.

I am of the view that Family Futures is small and pioneering but we have a role to play in evidencing good practice.

As one of the founding members of Family Futures I have been here from the very first day back in April 1998. Helping traumatised children and their families heal is at the heart of what we do and my background as a Dramatherapist, Theraplay Trainer/Supervisor, Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapist and Somatic Experience Practitioner keeps me mindful of the journey we are all on to support the healing process for children who have suffered significant harm in their early years.

I feel proud to be the Registered Manager of such  a dedicated team of people at Family Futures, all working hard to ensure that the children and families having assessment and treatment, or children being matched and placed with parents through our i-Adopt service, are still getting an excellent service. I feel proud of the training team and those working hard to develop our services and launch We-foster!

We will continue to strive to ensure we provide a service of excellence validated by research and to speak out on behalf of children and families. The challenge is on for me in my new role, but five months in, I feel there are important things I can contribute to try and ensure that we find a better way of supporting traumatised children in their foster, special guardianship, kinship care or adoptive families.

Family Futures’ research papers reviewed by Kim Golding, DDPI Board Member

Kim Golding, DDPI Board Member, has written a Paper Review summary on our three research papers published in peer reviewed journals outlining the development and evaluation of the Neuro-Physiological Psychotherapy (NPP) treatment model. You can read more about the Paper Review on the DDP Network website here.

“These papers describe the developing evidence for the efficacy of an integrative, biopsychosocial intervention for adopted children who, on average, were within the mid-childhood age range at time of initial assessment. The model uses a synergy of therapeutic approaches, underpinned by DDP, and delivered using a wrap-around approach which supports parents, schools and the professional network.” From the Paper Review by Kim S. Golding, DDPI Board Member, 2020

Dr Dan Hughes delivers DDP Level 2 training at Family Futures

Great to welcome Dr Dan Hughes, founder of DDP, at Family Futures to deliver DDP Level 2 training here (3-6 February). DDP is a treatment model for professionals working with traumatised children to improve attachment relationships. We have a few spaces left on our next DDP Level 2 training running in July 2020. You can find out more about DDP (Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy) and our other training courses for professionals here.

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